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Veronika Bond's avatar

What an incredible write, Stella!

You're absolutely right "The disastrous reality of raising teens is that you have zero control and total responsibility." That's what I remember about those years too.

Stay safe❣️

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Stella Lyn's avatar

How DID we survive?! 💀 Thank you so much, Veronika. I really appreciate you reading my work.

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Veronika Bond's avatar

with fear & sweat 😰 and calling upon all the guardian angels 😅

It's my pleasure to meet you here 🙏

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Stella Lyn's avatar

For sure! Nice to meet you, too!!

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Will Putman's avatar

Gads, this is brilliant! Where did we go wrong with our kids? The adventures were not nearly so “colorful”.

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Stella Lyn's avatar

Hi Will! Thank you so much ♥️♥️♥️

As for the kids, and the $64,000 question, all I know is: humans are messy.

We muddle through somehow. Stay cozy up in the frozen northland.

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Rebecca Bik Parker's avatar

I am trying to push out one of my emerging adults these days and I agree that it's harder than the birthing. My kid also did the thing with the apple-pipe (although she left it on the counter rather than going as far as putting it back in the bowl), and she also keeps pushing my ability to ignore things I'd rather not have to address. I love your writing and I'm glad I somehow found you.

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Stella Lyn's avatar

Hello, I’m glad and sorry at the same time thar you found this piece relatable. I knew there were more of us out there! Godspeed. It’s all over before you know it.

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Kelly Winsa's avatar

wow. You are an incredible writer. My kid threw his phone through one of my paintings once on his way to the bathroom, I think. But your lives are way more interesting.

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Stella Lyn's avatar

Oy! Kids! Hardest job in the world. I’m so sorry to hear about your painting. Thanks so much for reading and responding.

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Kelly Winsa's avatar

It was a one off and the painting wasn't my best one. I tried to mend it so now it looks like a painting with a bit of crochet at the top.

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Stella Lyn's avatar

Scars from a massive growth period....

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Glen Thomson's avatar

Wow. The wind stories I believe. (the other ones too)

I once saw that video of a plane taking off (or landing?) in an Alaskan wind storm. The plane was flying into the gale and was floating above one spot on the ground.

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Stella Lyn's avatar

Small planes can fly backwards in high enough wind!! It’s crazy. We used to have a Cessna 170B (my husband’s a pilot). Glad I never experienced flying backwards first hand, but we had a lot of other hare brained adventures.

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Stella Lyn's avatar

Hi, thank you! I am sure whatever shite we’ve contended with does not diminish the things you’re struggling through. Thanks a bunch for reading.

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